When you think of what it means to be an encouraging friend, what traits come to mind? Perhaps you think of someone supportive who uses kind words, cheers you on when you need a confidence boost, or is there to lend a listening ear when you are feeling down.
Now, what comes to mind when you think of an instigator? Perhaps someone who encourages others to make bad choices or do things that may get them in trouble. An instigator may tell someone else to break the rules or do something unsafe or unkind to another person.
Being an encourager vs. an instigator helps you be a better friend to others. Encouraging friends keep others safe by following the rules and supporting them in ways that boost their morale instead of putting them down.
4 Ways to Be an Encourager
Try these four ways to be an encourager instead of an instigator:
- Say kind things to others
- Help people when they need it
- Invite others to join in on activities
- Celebrate others’ successes
Being encouraging makes you and the people around you feel good. Be the kind kid and try our four tips to be an encouraging friend.
These special education resources for accepting change were authored by the Watson Institute’s special education consultant, Andee Morris, M.Ed.
Social Skills PowerPoint Presentations
Instigator or Encourager PowerPoint Presentation
Instigator or Encourager Facilitator’s Guide
Social Skills Resource Materials
Instigator or Encourager Outline
Instigator or Encourager Parent Note
Instigator or Encourager Teacher Note
Instigator or Encourager Homework
Instigator or Encourager Magnet Cards
Instigator or Encourager Mini Schedule
Instigator or Encourager Activity 1
Instigator or Encourager Activity 2
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